- Oct 26, 2025
Before the World Told You Who to Be
- Tearhsa Wilder
- Inner Wisdom, Spiritual Growth, Self-Discovery, Authentic Living
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When you entered this world, you arrived as pure awareness — open, trusting, and untouched by expectation. You didn’t need to learn how to be worthy of love, or how to listen to your truth. You were love. You were truth. Everything within you knew how to trust, connect, and feel without hesitation.
But then, the world began to whisper.
Bit by bit, the voices around you — parents, teachers, society — layered over that inner knowing. You learned what was “good” or “acceptable,” how to fit in, when to stay quiet, and when it was safe to be seen. Somewhere along the way, you began to trade authenticity for approval.
It’s easy to forget that most of what we call “personality” is actually a collection of learned responses. The polite smile when you want to cry. The nod of agreement when your heart says no. The hesitation before speaking your truth because, at some point, truth wasn’t rewarded.
Yet beneath those layers, your original self still waits — patient and unchanged. The part of you that remembers who you are before the world told you who to be.
Reconnecting to that essence isn’t about erasing what you’ve learned; it’s about peeling away what never truly belonged to you. It’s remembering that your intuition, your joy, your sense of what feels right — these are not things you have to earn. They are already yours.
Take a quiet moment today and ask yourself:
What do I do because I believe I’m supposed to?
And what do I do because it feels like truth in my bones?
This is the doorway back to you.
Every time you choose your authentic impulse over a conditioned reaction, you come home to your knowing. You remember that wisdom was never something to be sought outside of yourself — it’s been whispering within you all along.
You were born knowing. The journey now is simply remembering.